Sometimes, an upcoming task makes us nervous. Here are some ways that we can either de-intensify the nervousness of the situation or completely eliviate the stress. Firstly, we can imagine that task to be an adventure. This can totally change our psychological reaction. This is just like solving a complicated question in an exam versus… Continue reading Some Tips To Get ‘Nervous Things’ Done
Mental Bubbles
Each one of us lives in his own mental bubble. What this means is that each one of us is a collection of his own knowledge, experiences, thoughts and reflections and skills. Each person has his unique mental built up. However, there are certain human moral principles that are common such as righteousness, truthfulness, being… Continue reading Mental Bubbles
The Good Imbalance
A balanced life offers no challenge and thus no chance to grow. Therefore, it is the imbalances in life that make a big man. Learn to deal with and learn from imbalances in life to grown and prosper. This is because a child only learns to balance himself on a bike one’s he experiences the… Continue reading The Good Imbalance
Trivial Opportunities
Sometimes we easily shrug off the small opportunities that come our way. This may be a small free meal that we are receiving. Or it may be a small job offer that we are being offered. We should remember that it is eventually the small bricks that make the big house. We should not try… Continue reading Trivial Opportunities
Up or Down
Going up requires energy in order to over-ride gravity. Coming down requires no effort. Therefore, to grow in life, you must put in the hard yards. It’s as simple as that. Although things will get easier, just as inertia makes them, you still need to put in some effort. For coming down takes nothing: just… Continue reading Up or Down
Excitement and Passion
Being excited and passionate about our own goals and ambitions can make all the hard work in the middle seem easy and so irrelevant. This is why it is important that we chase what we are passionate about, otherwise the journey become very tedious. And it is also important that we constantly motivate ourselves and… Continue reading Excitement and Passion
Riding the Tide, Stretching the Rubber Band, Becoming a Pearl!
Anything attached to an extremely pulled rubber band will fly far and high when the rubber band is released. If the rubber band is not stretched enough, it does fly far enough. Likewise, problems that we face in our life give us an opportunity to grow, develop and become stronger and fly higher and further.… Continue reading Riding the Tide, Stretching the Rubber Band, Becoming a Pearl!
Understanding Others can Help us Remove Hate for Them
Seeing everything from our personal point of view can lead us to hate other unendingly. We can easily remove this hate by simply imagining and understanding what the other person feels and thinks like. This can help us understand their situation and our hatred can turn into sympathy. Additionally, understanding them can help us help… Continue reading Understanding Others can Help us Remove Hate for Them
Future Comes Fast
It is easy to procrastinate today, thinking that we have enough time in our hands. Similarly, it is easy to make wrong decisions today, be unjust to others etc. thinking that tomorrow is far ahead. However, when we simply look behind and think about the last few years, they seem like a blink away from… Continue reading Future Comes Fast
Expecting the Best From Allah
Our emotion of fearing our future can lead us to become anxious and make up haunted stories of our future in our mind. However, these are the times that really put our trust upon Allah to the test. They make us kneel in front of Allah, beg Him and cry our heart out to Him.… Continue reading Expecting the Best From Allah